The beauty myth of the present is more insidious than any mystique of femininity yet: A century ago, Nora slammed the door of the doll's house; a generation ago, women turned their backs on the consumer heaven of the isolated multiapplianced home; but where women are trapped today, there is no door to slam. The contemporary ravages of the beauty backlash are destroying women physically and depleting us psychologically. If we are to free ourselves from the dead weight that has once again been made out of femaleness, it is not ballots or lobbyists or placards that women will need first; it is a new way to see. Naomi Wolf
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Of all the myths that have been perpetuated about women, by far the most destructive is the idea that we are only ever beautiful on the outside. In a culture where all of us are told we look different on the inside, it becomes easy to see how we can start to believe that our own unique inner qualities don't matter. If we begin to look at ourselves differently, if we begin to see our strengths and talents and not just our flaws, this begins to change our perceptions of ourselves. If we look at ourselves as whole human beings, then we start to realize that beauty is something that happens from the inside out, not from the outside in.

Source: The Beauty Myth

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